looking for something long term

First name

ben

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

i have long hair atm i donate it to wigs for kids I've always wanted to be a family man, even when i was a child. ill post a picture of it short and long. unless the person i meet likes it long this will probably be the last time i donate it. I'm Christian. i believe in monogamy.I'm looking for someone that is funny likes kid's i have my grandkids living with me oldest is 9 they are very sweet, im old school. im a cuddler i open doors and like giving flowers and sometimes leave little poems or notes for my partner im new to this, i hadn't thought to try this, i had given up as i found people don't usually mean its what's on the inside when Ur on oxygen, and my son thought i should see if their was a sight like this. so i thought i would try it. hopefully i can at least find a friend or to but i would like someone to grow old with. im looking for someone honest sweet doesn't mind cuddling like when hanging out on the couch. someone caring. i dont need help with money i have a home. i don't drive though. But i don't mid paying for uber or taxis.trying to be honest lifes to short to play games. if you have any questions im an open book, ill tell you whatever you would like to know. if this is bland i havent written one of these so hopefully its not horrible lol.id say more about me but it keeps not letting it send

Sign

Cancer

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

5' 9 (1.75 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Hair

Body Art

Other

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Contruction / Craftsman

My Job Title Is

was owner

I Make This Much In A Year

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

I Live

With Kid(s), With Pet(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Class Clown

My Social Behavior Is

Shy, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Dining, Tv, Movies, Games, Dancing, Theater, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Going To A Casino, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

somewhere in public so everyones comfortable or if weve talked and gotin to know each other ive never learned to dance so mabey diner and somewhere to mabey learn to slow dance. on oxygen so cant do crazy stuff i always wanted to do swing danching but i raised my kids alone

I've Always Wanted To Try

danching, mabwy travel a little i traveled all over america building cold stone creameries and other homes and stuff but a beach or sitting watching the sun set on the ocean. and im open to trying things something someone else would like to try as it wouldnt be all about me

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, A Troll, Goofy, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Year

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

to live happily and have healthy kids and grandkids and someone to share life with.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Classical, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Ancient, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Mathematics, Mystery, Nature, Religious, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, Romance

My Idea Of Fun Is

very wide spectrum it would be based more on what the person im with can or would like to do as i enjoy most everything being single i play games with my kids to keep in touch. sitten in the sun swinging on the porch. spending time with someone. i got rid of all the bad influences in my life as they just caused trouble and my last good friend passed away last year i like working on cars. its a bit slower with oxygen. i like remodeling sometimes.i love playing with my grandkids a childs laughter is one of the best thing on the planet.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Oddities, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

prettymuch all of the above. and i clicked pretty as everyones pretty in thier own way sometimes the personality is what makes them neautifull

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Other